Not a Whore

Fuck Around & Find Out

Last month I visited my son in Tennessee. I met his supervisor when he came to the tiny house on their lunch break. I introduced myself to him and the other co-workers who were repairing the air conditioning unit that hot mid-July afternoon.

“Your mom is not a whore.” That’s what Daniel told me his boss said to him after meeting me.

Imagine that! Imagine knowing a woman is not a whore just by taking one look at her.

Imagine women not leading with their sexuality. Or being easy AF. And men not categorizing women in their minds as a whore or not a whore.

You can’t open a social media app without seeing women in all forms of undress, sexually provocative poses and duck lips or open mouths. And it’s not just their filtered selfies. It’s their profile pics. It’s not just on their private Only Fans accounts. It’s on Instagram and TikTok.

Imagine women being feminine and modest, having some fucking self-control and genuine self-respect.

Instead, what we have today is a bunch of worthless whores. Women who will fuck like a man and get fucked by dozens of men. Women with a high body count who are seeking attention from high value men but who have no real value to contribute to a relationship beyond being fuckable...but only for a short decade before their youth and beauty fade. Women who spend all of their money trying to look like a 10 to get their mealticket punched but who couldn’t make a meal for their ideal mate if their life depended on it. But don’t worry…there’s DoorDash for that!

Women these days remind me of a scene in the movie, Mrs. Doubtfire, when a candidate for the nanny position is listing off all of the household chores she doesn’t do.

I don't do laundry, I don't do windows, I don't do carpets, I don't do bathtubs, I don't do toilets, I don't do diapers...I don't do washing, I don't do basements, I don't do dinners, and I don't do reading!

~ Mrs. Dupree

What do women do these days? Make lazy girl money whoring it up on the apps on their phones! Swiping right on “dating” apps to find some guy who fancies a fuck to buy them dinner.

Then, there’s the TikTok trend of filming a faux marriage proposal and flashing to various wifely duties, womanly roles and motherly states and then having the young woman give the ring back and walk away…apparently towards some kind of blissful single life of hookups and girl dinners alone on the couch watching some romcom on Netflix in their one bedroom apartment.

Or, the liberal feminist who insists on keeping her freedom and strong independent woman vibes while bemoaning the fact that she can’t find a gentleman with the masculine traits of provider and protector who doesn’t also have “conservative” values. You mean you want a man with traditional values but you don’t want to be a trad wife? You mean men who want to be a husband are looking for a woman who will be a true helpmate, a committed life partner, a faithful wife and loving mother? You mean men don’t want to romance and pay for the life of a boss babe who doesn’t have time to make dinner and can’t be bothered to have children? Imagine that!

No wonder people like Pearl Davis of Just Pearly Things has recently come to the conclusion that promiscuous women aren’t special or important. That between their body count, abortions and STDs, their actual value is far, far less than their perceived value. And that in her words, “hoeflation has gone on for far too long”.

Women fuck around and find out that there’s plenty of men who will just use them for sex. Duh! But instead of embodying the feminine qualities that men look for in a wife and mother for their children, young women repeatedly sleep with a series of men who have no intention of marrying them or ever getting married and then wonder why they have a long history of “situationships” that lead nowhere. Of course, there are men who “wifed a ho” and almost immediately regretted it. But for the men with any self-respect, they are looking fora woman with good character and moral values. They’re looking for a wife, not a whore.

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Pearls of Wisdom is a personal blog of the wisdom writings of Dara Eden that fall outside the realms of feng shui, The 8 Elements and her other personal energy work. Established in 2014, the blog is an expression of her highest values: Sovereignty, Truth, Wisdom & Inner Peace. It’s devoted to increasing awareness, expanding consciousness, bringing knowledge, sharing innerstandings and offering wisdom to the sovereign souls inhabiting the Earth.

Dara Eden is a writer and wisdom keepHER. The name, Dara, means “pearl of wisdom”. Pearls are formed when a microscopic irritant, like a grain of sand, embeds itself within the soft tissue of a shelled mollusk. To protect itself, the oyster or clam covers the invading gritty particle with concentric layers of iridescent crystalline calcium to form treasures, pearls of great beauty and worth. Gifts of the sea, pearls are the oldest known gem and the only gem that does not need to be cut, shaped or polished. Pearls are associated with elegance and luxury and are a symbol of mystery and purity. Pearls represent priceless knowledge, the rare wisdom that begins as a tiny, random, common irritant.