Not Valid
Trusting Your Emotional Guidance
This is a crossover blog with Feng Shui Yourself.
If you know about The 8 Elements, you know that what the elements share is connected with their primary human expression. Earth elements share their actions, what they are doing or have done. Metal elements share their thoughts, what they are thinking or what they think about things. Fire and Water elements share their awareness, what their being is connected with or conscious of. And Wood elements share their feelings.
In preparation for two back to back Wood element years in 2023 and 2024, I co-created an experience last year so that I could develop some empathy for the emotional elements. I never lead with my emotions. Nor do I share how I’m feeling. I process my emotions in the privacy of my own inner world.
But last winter I dared share my disappointment with the way humans have submitted to global tyranny. It’s been astounding to watch people voluntarily consent to their own demise through the depopulation agenda. I was also grieving the loss of my mother to a religious cult and the death of the only man I’ve ever loved. It’s been an emotional time. Right in alignment with the highly emotional energy of Wood element years.
While we’ve been taught that your feelings are valid, that you’re not “wrong” for having feelings, and not to invalidate people’s feelings, I learned the hard way that even “spiritual” people don’t actually practice what they preach. They’re just as quick to accuse you of being judgmental and silence you for sharing unpopular or politically incorrect opinions if they might hurt the feelings of the easily offended or cause cognitive dissonance for the successfully mind controlled.
You see, in a country where we are supposed to have free speech, the truth is covered up and redacted, censored and banned. The state directive is: regurgitate the official narrative or limit your posts to pictures of your outfit of the day or what you ate for lunch. Truth tellers are shadow banned or cancelled, de-monetized and de-platformed. Or, they’re threatened into self-censorship and silenced if they don’t comply.
Upon reflecting on this reaction to sharing my feelings about the state of the world and its inhabitants, I realized that these accusations of being judgmental are the new “conspiracy theorist” label. Conspiracy theorist was a term created after the assassination of JFK, by the Clowns In America, to shut down the people who question the official story, don’t believe what the propaganda arm of the government tells them, think for themselves and do their own research. And associate them with being “crazy” or “fringe”, thereby discrediting them, their research and anything they say.
Today, all you have to do to get people to censor themselves is tell them they’re being judgmental, insulting, mean, unkind, not “nice”, intolerant, a bigot or have some “phobia”. Just for sharing the truth of what’s really going on or how they are really feeling about it.
Emotions are unique to humans. They color our world with variegated hues of bright and muted shades of light and dark energy. They are a vital guidance system for the human life experience. They provide quality information about our energy balance and personal wellbeing. They are one of the most valuable barometrical tools we have to navigate through this storm we’ve been subjected to.
Not sure who needs to hear this, but…you are allowed to have feelings. In fact, it’s your feelings that make you human and not the transhumanized droid they want you to be. So, feel your feelings. Let them communicate with you and be your guide. Express your emotions. Process them in healthy ways. Find people who are willing to listen to how you are feeling with love and compassion. Allow your emotions (energy in motion) to move through you so you can release them before they get stored in the body and wreak havoc on your health.
Telling the truth is more important than what people think of you. Don’t let their name calling silence you. Don’t let them bully you into cowardly self-censorship. And don’t let them tell you that your feelings are not valid.
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Pearls of Wisdom is a personal blog of the wisdom writings of Dara Eden that fall outside the realms of feng shui, The 8 Elements and her other personal energy work. Established in 2014, the blog is an expression of her highest values: Sovereignty, Truth, Wisdom & Inner Peace. It’s devoted to increasing awareness, expanding consciousness, bringing knowledge, sharing innerstandings and offering wisdom to the sovereign souls inhabiting the Earth.
Dara Eden is a writer and wisdom keepHER. The name, Dara, means “pearl of wisdom”. Pearls are formed when a microscopic irritant, like a grain of sand, embeds itself within the soft tissue of a shelled mollusk. To protect itself, the oyster or clam covers the invading gritty particle with concentric layers of iridescent crystalline calcium to form treasures, pearls of great beauty and worth. Gifts of the sea, pearls are the oldest known gem and the only gem that does not need to be cut, shaped or polished. Pearls are associated with elegance and luxury and are a symbol of mystery and purity. Pearls represent priceless knowledge, the rare wisdom that begins as a tiny, random, common irritant.
